My father is squicked out by gay guys. He admits that if he saw two men making out, it would make him very, very uncomfortable. Not so for two women making out, which he can't explain. He says that he's probably "too old-fashioned."
He is also completely in favor of equal rights and agrees with me utterly about Prop 8 being bullshit.
I'm so proud of him.
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That's nifty. I had this argument with my mother while the gay marriage thing was being debated in Canada, in which I tried to point out that frankly, it was none of her business whether gay people got married or not -- it didn't make her marriage somehow less valid . She couldn't articulate her objections, she just felt it was wrong and would make marriage meaningless. I pointed out that straight people had been doing that in divorce courts for quite some time. I don't think she bought it.
I'd be interested to know how she feels now that we've had gay marriage for a couple of years and it has not foretold the end of civilization as we know it.
Posted by Jacquilynne | October 30, 2008 8:37 PM
Posted on October 30, 2008 20:37
My dad is really good friends with a gay guy, but it still makes him totally uncomfortable - and while I've met all of his straight friends; this one has never been over for any occasions, like ever.
Fathers are so weird.
Posted by Andre | October 30, 2008 10:02 PM
Posted on October 30, 2008 22:02
I like the Chris Rock take on the 'sanctity' of marriage: "People always say that we can't have gay marriage because marriage is a sacred institution, that happens in the church. It's sacred... no it's not! Marriage ain't sacred! Not in America! Not in the country that watches "Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?" or "The Bachelor" or "The Bachelorette" or "Who Wants to Marry a Midget?" Get the fuck outta here! Gay people have as much of a right to be miserable as everybody else!"
Posted by Aya | October 31, 2008 2:35 PM
Posted on October 31, 2008 14:35